11 Ways to Fight Stress and Help Your Heart 

Stress is bad for your ticker. Here are 11 steps you can take to fight stress and protect your heart.

Can stress hurt your heart? The evidence is piling up that the answer is yes, stress is bad for your ticker. 
 
“There are studies to show that stress is comparable to other risk factors that we traditionally think of as major, like hypertension, poor diet and lack of exercise,” says Kathi Heffner, Ph.D., an associate professor of psychiatry at the Rochester Center for Mind-Body Research at the University of Rochester Medical Center in New York. 
 
Here are 11 steps you can take to fight stress and protect your heart. 

1. Focus on relaxation. 

Stress-reduction techniques and exercises such as yoga, meditation and tai chi have been shown to lower stress hormones and bolster immune function, says Heffner. 
 
“Dedicating a certain time of the day to focus on your body and on actually relaxing, (not) caring about the other things that are going on your day, is very useful,” says John Simmons Jr., M.D., a family medical doctor in Alabama. 

2. Connect with friends. 

Spending too much time on your own can affect not only your mental health but your heart health as well. This holds true whether or not you’ve been actually diagnosed with heart disease. 
 
So get out and about. However, make sure you’re connecting with true friends. “If you have a lot of friends but they’re all mean to you, that won’t be beneficial,” Heffner says. And that’s backed up by research. 

3. Forget perfect. 

We all know that the type A personality—the one constantly striving for perfection—seems more prone to heart disease. But what it really boils down to, says Heffner, is hostility. “Hostility has been shown to be the key ingredient in what used to be termed the type A personality,” she says. “Hostility is behavior that’s fueled by anger toward other people.” Research suggests that hostility may be a better predictor of heart disease than things like high blood pressure and being overweight. 
 
So play nice and think nice thoughts about the future, as optimism has also been shown to protect the heart. 

4. Don’t hold grudges. 

Nursing a grudge isn’t going to help in the heart-health department. Research suggests that people experience more psychological stress and higher heart rates when they hold grudges than when they grant forgiveness. 
 
“You would be amazed at how strongly they can take root in your psyche and how long they can gnaw at you. Getting that monkey off your back psychologically is very important, and allows you to move on and quit perseverating,” Simmons says.  
 
So, be quick to forgive. This is also likely to lead to better social relationships, another boost for the heart, Heffner says. 

5. Don’t drink (too much) alcohol. 

Having too many drinks can raise triglycerides and blood pressure and even lead to heart failure. However, moderate drinking may actually ward off heart disease. Moderate means no more than one drink a day for women and two for men. 
 
If you don’t drink, this isn’t a reason to start, according to Simmons. “But if you have always enjoyed a glass of wine and want reassurance, it’s perfectly fine,” he says. 

6. Cut the caffeine. 

Caffeine can quickly raise your fight-or-flight response and all the attendant stress hormones, explains Simmons. That’s good if you’re being chased by a saber-toothed tiger but not so good if you’re stuck in traffic.  
 
Elevated stress hormones contribute to inflammation. So cut down on your coffee or tea habit. And even your diet soda habit. Preliminary studies have linked diet soda consumption to an increased risk of diabetes, a major risk factor for heart disease. 

7. Limit emotional involvement. 

Not with people! But avoid getting too emotionally invested in things that don’t matter that much. 
 
For example, researchers recently linked football-team losses with a greater risk of heart attack. In Los Angeles County, deaths from heart attacks and just deaths in general (mostly in elderly people) spiked after the Pittsburgh Steelers routed the Los Angeles Rams 31-19 in the 1980 Super Bowl. But when the Rams pounded the Washington Redskins 38-9 in 1984, deaths in the county declined. So don’t sweat the small stuff—and remember that it’s all small stuff. 

8. Eat right. 

Eating a balanced diet—low in red meat and processed foods, high in fruits and vegetables, poultry, fish and whole grains—will not only keep your weight down but will also have a more direct effect on the heart’s functioning: it keeps your blood sugar stable throughout the day so you can avoid destructive peaks and valleys. “Eating a more balanced diet with complex carbs means you’re going to be stable throughout the day,” Simmons says. “You’re not going to have a carb high, then a drop down. Your mood isn’t going to fluctuate.” 
 
Healthy eating can help prevent or delay diabetes, a major risk factor for heart trouble. 

9. Seek help for depression. 

Depression can increase the risk of heart disease and may shorten life span. If you’re depressed, medication, psychotherapy or cognitive behavioral therapy and other treatments may help. A study in the British Medical Journal found that the antidepressants known as selective serotonin reuptake inhibitors (SSRIs, such as Prozac and Zoloft) don’t raise heart attack risk. 

But ask your doctor if this is the best drug for your depression and make sure you know about any interactions. 

10. Get some sleep. 

So many people in our sleep-deprived culture just aren’t getting enough zzz’s, or enough of the right kind of rest. A nightly average of six to eight hours of sleep is recommended, according to Simmons. 
 
However, quality of sleep is key. Sleep apnea—a condition in which you wake up periodically due to interrupted breathing—has been linked with cardiovascular disease.  
 
People who awake in the middle of the night from sleep apnea are unable to complete normal sleep cycles, a time when the body naturally lowers hormone levels and blood pressure. This can lead to hypertension and heart disease. 

11. Exercise more. 

Want a cure-all? Try aerobic exercises like running, walking, swimming and even dancing. These activities help you feel better, lower your risk for diabetes and make your heart stronger, a trifecta of health benefits. Exercise can also help depression.  
 
Study after study has shown the benefits of physical activity, even active housework or gardening. The reason? It pumps your heart, moving blood all around the body.  
 
The American Heart Association recommends exercising aerobically at least 30 minutes all or most days of the week. But talk to your doctor before hitting the track. 

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